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Thursday, May 28, 2015
Dollars to Kopi Luwak. A DIY Mom's way to save money and have cool stuff.
I've tried to sit down and write this post nearly 20 times, but each time I get distracted by, um, super important stuff.
Attempt number 21 commencing in 3....
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Lately I've noticed a trend of baby wraps, baby carriers, clothing, handbags - etc. It feels like if you are a woman and/or a mother, you must buy these things in order to be viewed as a good mother. Part of the popular crowd. As if in some way, our insecure selves as new parents need yet another reason to feel insecure about our parenting choices - now there are even more labels, and even MORE pressure to buy or get the newest best thing for our kids. I've been suckered more than once. Over the years though, I've grown more practical. When I did cave and get or ask for some cool item that wasn't exactly necessary but really fun to have, I didn't feel bad about it.
It used to be (and yes, I remember these days as I was a mother figure back then too) some 10-15 years ago, that a baby carrier was used to carry a baby. Now it's used to show status with some soft carriers running as high as $329 on Amazon such as the Vaude Koala Pack all the way down to the Cosmo Cow baby bag sling for $0.01 (plus $30 in shipping).
Wraps are no better, and the same goes for strollers, diaper bags, and if you're female and reading this I don't need to tell you about shoes, handbags, and clothes. I'm sure there are many of those out there who can afford a pram for $3,999, however I am not one of them.
While I don't like "cheap" I do like practical and inexpensive. A name tag means nothing to me. If what I have can do the job I don't care if it has a pedigree or not. The only time I stray from this is when the brand gives back, like Toms Shoes and Alex & Ani's Charity by Design.
For those of us who don't want to mortgage our house or get run over by crazed soccer moms for some "preppy styled clothes" or contemplate selling a kidney to get a decent baby carrier/wrap that works for more than one thing - going forward every Friday I will post a way to get the SAME EXACT THING as some "high-falutin" overly expensive item. Some videos and photos may accompany my post. Actually video and photo will always accompany my post. Any item I do you are free to use my pattern.
The trick is you have to do the work. If it's just covenience you want, and not cost savings, then go buy the item you want and keep it moving. No one will judge you. But if you want to save money, then follow along and take whatever money you've saved and go put it in the bank or take your family to get ice cream. Or buy Kopi Luwak. Whatever floats your boat and puts you in your happy place Mom or Dad.
Please feel free to message me if you have something you want to recreate, to work around, or to get but don't want to spend the money for. I'll try and figure out a way to get it, make it, or trade it for next to nothing.
This week? Baby carrier/wrap, skirt, and some super comfy wrap pants - all from one single piece of cloth.